Passwords stay yours.
The recovering spouse keeps every account in their name and every master password in their hands. The accountability partner keeps a clear, limited window — agreed on in advance — and nothing more.
For Couples
Read this with your spouse. Nothing about Stewardship is something one of you does to the other; it is something the two of you choose, step by step, with help.
Psalm 127:1 — “Unless the Lord builds a house, the work of the builders is wasted.” (NLT)
The recovering spouse keeps every account in their name and every master password in their hands. The accountability partner keeps a clear, limited window — agreed on in advance — and nothing more.
Either of you can pause. Either of you can ask for the exit door. The technology supports the relationship; it is not allowed to outgrow it.
Heartland has walked alongside couples in real recovery for years. Stewardship is the practical, bolts-and-locks side of that work — a supplement to the coaching and counseling you may also be in, not a substitute. The path is well-worn; it can be yours.